I don’t quite like you and the way you deal with things. How much does it cost you to open up and ask for a favor? You’re dealing with your biggest day in life, minus the fact that you’ve been through this once. As an experience, you should be taking care of every single bit of events and missing one of them and get yourself in last-minute-trouble, thus causing others in trouble too. I just couldn’t stop myself from thinking the relationship in your nucleus circle. Excuses are merely forms of avoidance and worst was when your kuya didn’t even volunteer to help. The smell of rivalry is rather strong. Perhaps they just gave up on you long time when you’ve lost the first ever happy scenes. Sometimes you just can’t assume and take everything for granted. It’s the power of negotiation that is needed. It’s just as simple as that. Above all, I think working harder to prove your capabilities are much better. I’m sure you could do that rather than pushing the responsibilities to a third party. Are you being afraid to ask for a favor or you just took advantage of the person who once bore you for being close to your uncle? You’re a loser. Tell me now what have you got to lose to do something extra to complete things? I can’t help it but to feel a little pissed though I know I shouldn’t. Who cares? My parents don’t. Why should I?
Help yourself before asking others to help you.